Friday, November 20, 2015

Dialogue - Knowledge and Wisdom


Dialogue - Knowledge and Wisdom


Student: Sir, what does this line mean - “Knowledge comes but wisdom lingers?”

Teacher: This line is from a poem by Tennyson, called “Locksley Hall,” in which the poet talks about the great increase of scientific knowledge in the 19th century. He says that men have more knowledge than they used to have, but they are no wiser.

Student: But is not wisdom the same thing as knowledge? In the history lesson the other day you said that James I, King of England, was called the “wisest fool in Christendom,” and you told us that wisest meant “most learned.”

Teacher: Correct, I did, and in that phrase it does. But that is not the proper meaning of the word, “wise.” It would have been better to speak of King James as the most learned fool.

Student: Then what is the difference between wisdom and knowledge?

Teacher: Knowledge or learning means to know many facts and theories about a specific subject. It is accurate and systematized information. And a person who knows a great deal about a subject is a learned person or a scholar.

Student: But isn’t this person also a wise person?

Teacher: Not necessarily, a learned scholar is a master of his / her subject but may be a fool in practical matters of life. This person may be so buried in books and studies, that he /she knows nothing of men, little of business and the ways of the world. So in practical matters, he / she may be like a child - easily deceived, often confused and frequently doing silly things.

Student: Then what is wisdom?

Teacher: Wisdom is knowledge applied to everyday life, but the knowledge behind wisdom is not available from books and study, but from experience - life itself. Wisdom is knowing the best way to manage one’s life - what is best to seek and to do, and what is best to avoid. And to not only know this as a theory, but to also carry it out in practice. So wisdom shows itself in action, and is partly moral strength and power of will.

Student: But isn’t a wise man a scholar?

Teacher: Again, not necessary. Just as a scholar may be a fool, so an ignorant or uneducated man may be wise. Many Indian farmers, who cannot read or write, has never heard of history or philosophy, are wise. They know how to live, what is best to do and what should not be done. They have learnt by experience how to manage their lives.

Student: Which is best to have - learning or wisdom?

Teacher: It is best to have both, learn from your teachers and read a lot of books to develop knowledge, and then from life’s experiences to gain wisdom to manage the different situations life presents. In this manner, a person can live a satisfying and fulfilled life.


Thursday, November 19, 2015

Dialogue - Childhood - its advantages

Dialogue - Childhood - its advantages


Basil: Is this your little boy, Ralph? What a fine little fellow! How old is he?

Ralph: Yes, he is my younger son and he is just over six years old.

Basil: Quite a big lad for his age! - You want to go back to your games, my little man? That’s right - run away! - He is a boy to be proud of, Ralph. He takes me back to my own childhood, the happiest times of my life.

Ralph: Yes, I agree, I had a good time when I was a boy, too.

Basil: I often wish I could be a boy again! No responsibilities, no business tensions, no knowledge of this wicked world.

Ralph: I completely agree with you, Basil. I was very happy as a child and I too wish to be a child again, sometimes, especially, when I see my little son.

Basil: Childhood is innocent and is not troubled with a guilty conscience. A child is full of hope and splendid dreams of what he will do and be when he grows up to be a man. It is a time of romance, when the whole world is beautiful and new and full of surprises.

Ralph: Yes Basil, when I look back on our childhood, we bring back a lot of romance. We forget all the worries of the present day and remember all the pleasant memories of the past.

Basil: A child’s troubles are very small - little trifles    , his tears are like a rain shower, soon over.

Ralph: To us grown ups, a child’s troubles always seem very trivial; but to a child, they are very real and very big. We are looking at their troubles from the grown-up standards and forget that when we were children, we suffered and felt miserable too.

Basil: Think of a child’s innocence!

Ralph: Yes, it was a very innocent time. as we grew older, knowledge comes, knowledge of good and evil. I still think that the innocence was better than knowledge. We were carefree.

Basil: I know, and would love to be a boy again and enjoy those happy-go-lucky days again.

Ralph: Basil, we should meet more often and talk about our childhood and keep those memories alive and I am sure we will be able to deal with the problems of our present lives in a much more relaxed and mature manner. It’s a good thing I brought my son to the park and met you on the way here and all because of him, we had this amazing conversation. See you, Basil, let me go and play with my son for sometime.



 
 
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Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Ideology is the Root Cause of All Violence

Ideology Is The Root Cause Of All Violence
Talk: Osho



Real prayer has nothing to do with words, formalities. Real prayer is neither Hindu, Muslim nor Christian. How can silence be Hindu or Muslim? Silence is silence. Words can be Hindu and words can be Muslim; hence words create conflict and violence in the world. It is not that people are fighting for realities ­ they are fighting for words.
Thousands of wars have been fought, not for any real thing, but just for mere words. For example, one believes in the Quran and the other believes in the Gita ­ that's enough to kill millions of people. And both are words; neither is a reality .
Have you seen people killing each other for a rose flower or for the moon or for the sun? These are realities. But they can kill even in the name of the moon. If somebody claims, “The moon is our God,“ then he has imposed a word, God, on the moon. And then somebody says, “You are a fool. The moon is not the real God, the real God is the sun.“ And quarrelling starts, and fights happen.
Words have been the cause of all wars ­ religious or political wars.Ideology is the root cause of all violence.And now there are people who try to bring peace to the world, and again they create another ideology .
The name that Prophet Muhammad gave to his religion is Islam. Islam means peace. But the ideology isn't bringing peace ... Who else can claim more peaceful attitude towards life than Jesus? But Christianity, the ideology that was created around Jesus, has been a calamity.
All ideologies are bound to bring war, even ideologies based in peace and for peace. Then how can peace come? Peace can come only if we understand the stupidity of all ideologies and drop them. If we simply start living without any ideology , there will be peace.
But when you say , “This is our ideology; that we will not believe in any ideology ,“ then you are making an ideology out of that also. Then those who won't believe and who won't agree with you will start fighting with you.

I am not saying to you that you have to make this an ideology , or that no ideology is needed. I am simply saying try to understand what has happened through ideologies, words, theories, philosophies. Just see the point, and seeing it, let it drop.

Don't make a new ideology against ideologies. Just see the point ­ drop it, let it drop, be finished with it.
 
Live without any theories of how to live. Live without any `shoulds' and `oughts'. Every fact sooner or later becomes an `ought' and then it becomes dangerous. Every truth sooner or later becomes an ideology and then it is harmful and poisonous.

Can't we live without any ideology?

Have you seen any Catholic tree or communist peacock? If the whole of existence can live without ideology , why not man?

And the moment a man lives without ideology he is prayerful. Then his whole life is prayer, then, he is religious. The man who has an ideology is political; all ideologies are political.

The religious person lives without any ideology . He simply lives moment to moment, responding to reality ­ not through words, not through disciplines, not through certain attitudes, conclusions. No, he simply responds to whatsoever is the case and whatsoever is right in the moment, not according to some idea.

The moment one drops words and ideologies, suddenly one becomes very , very aware. And that awareness is prayer.

(Abridged from Unio Mystica, courtesy Osho International Foundation, http:www.osho.com)


  
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Sunday, November 15, 2015

Your Choice of Vacation Defines your Personality

YOUR CHOICE OF VACATION DEFINES YOUR PERSONALITY
Ismat Tahseen

Now, where you choose to go on holiday says a lot about you.
Researchers at University of Virginia have been able to conclude that a person's personality type is a major influencer on whether they might head for the hills or hit the beach. The idea was based on the notion of a `person-environment fit', which means people select certain surroundings to fulfill their own desires.It was found that introversion was linked to a preference for mountains, while extraversion was linked to a beach getaway . Here's more...

MOUNTAINS
WHAT YOU ARE: Introvert
Creative, quiet folk are part of this breed.They love nothing more than the blueness of the mountain ranges, the crisp air and snow and clouds. They are adventure minded and love nature.

ARCHITECTURAL BREAK
WHAT YOU ARE: Arty and intellectual
Jetting to a city just to tour its monuments, archaeological sites, walk on its famed bridges and soak in old-world history and charm? At heart, you are a learner with a leaning towards architecture and tradition.

HIPSTER HOLIDAY
WHAT YOU ARE: Trendsetter
These jet-setters travel to follow a famous trail. They may do a movie-location inspired trail in some cities, find the best coffee bars, behave like tech-savvy locals and dress in the latest fashion prevalent in a place. Their idea of travel is quirky and it's about being seen rather than finding their own travel scene. Currently , several Eurpoean cities are battling for the title `hipster capital'. And did you know, `hipster holiday' was among the top buzzwords of the year?

ARMCHAIR TRAVELLERS
WHAT YOU ARE: A dreamer
These are people who won't really venture out of their comfort zones and take a risk, but prefer to dream their desire.Their motivators may be travel shows, tr magazines and blogs but they're happy desktop trav elling across the globe, with a `someday' wish. Talk to them about a place you've been to and the answer is always a, `Oh I wish I could have been there too'.

VOLUNTOURIST
WHAT YOU ARE: Do-gooder globetrotter
Helping out is your middle name, here.Volunteer travel is also a huge fad and it's about helping in schools or orphanages while you are at a place. It's about social welfare meeting leisure and the idea has caught up over time. In India, voluntourists help communities out in the stark and sparse desert landscape of Spiti by setting up solar-powered appliances there.

WELLNESS TOURIST
WHAT YOU ARE: Health-conscious
This has been one of the most popular vacation trends of late more vacationeers are swapping traditional sightseeing and food indulgences for local yoga learning and sipping on smoothies while on a break. A rise in obesity levels and risk of chronic diseases coupled with stress 24/7, has fuelled this.
Wellness tourism is defined as travel with the sole purpose of boosting one's health and well-being via physical, psychological or spiritual activities.

BEACH WHAT YOU ARE:
Sunshine lover
Walking on pristine sands and wading into the blue sea miles away from home, it may seem like postcardpretty! It's also apt for those who might enjoy being with a crowd, unless of course it's so secluded a place that no one knows about it.Beaches are usually noisier, bustling places with more people to sit by and watch or connect with.

TRAVEL BRAGGIE WHAT YOU ARE:
A documenter
This person likes to take pictures of everything and show it off to friends and family as soon as he/she can. Travel to such a person is more about ticking things off an itinerary so as to say he's `been there, done that'. The touristy traveller hates missing out on any of the local attractions and you'll also catch them devouring information in local museums, and at staycation classes. This person is also most likely to have his or her own travel blog.

EXTREME TRAVEL WHAT YOU ARE:
Adrenaline junkie
They think nothing about bungee jumping off a helicopter into the mouth of an active volcano in Chile, ziplining in a rainforest, scaling a high bridge or cage diving with sharks in Fiji. These are fearless folks who live on the edge and travel gives them a thrill. There are no middle paths here; the agenda includes getaways to the hottest, coldest or wildest place possible.

CRUISE WHAT YOU ARE:
An extrovert
Like the idea of taking off on a luxury cruise to the French Riviera or even far off Alaska? You're bound to love the company miles away from land, as that is what being on a cruise is all about. Activities centred around knowing co-travellers, from dining with them to playing interactive games with them, make it fun.

SKIPPING YOUR HOLIDAYS?
YOU'RE AT RISK FOR A HEART ATTACK
Studies have stressed that all work and no play can be harmful to health in different ways and exceeding the average 8-hour day causes a 40% higher risk of heart disease. Some results have also showed that those who skip on a vacation for years in a row can be 30% more prone to a heart attack! Another study says relationship suffer when you don't use your vacation days.

SOLO TRAVELLER WHAT YOU ARE:
Confident
Planning a backpacking trip alone? While it says you are an independent thinker, it also notches up self-confidence for you. Solo holidayers are often borne out of choice or necessity and are okay with taking calculated risks. They're also a talkative bunch, looking to exchange notes with fellow solo vacationers.

 



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